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LT3 #85 - Finding Balance
hosted by @SHGFeesaired Jul 29, 20261h 18m
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LT3 #85 β€” Finding Balance

Host: Super (@SHGFees) with cohost Sho (@AgogoKaren) Β· Wed, 29 Jul 2026 Β· 1:17:49 Β· ~5 speakers

TL;DR

Highlights

[10:33] The origin story of a skipped late-night space. Sho recapped why she wasn't at the previous night's session: Liz texting her that the space was live at 12:30am, and Sho, already asleep since 10:30, deciding to stay that way. Super owned it too β€” he'd deliberately not woken her, since a two-in-a-row late space had dragged her the day before.

[11:09] Setting the topic (eventually). Super began framing the balance discussion; Sho's deadpan "Oh wait β€” balance?" and "I can't do two days in a row… I'm too old" set the room's easy, joking register for the hour.

[12:47] "Wait, people make money?" As Super described seeing PnLs where someone earns a yearly salary in a week, Sho played dumb β€” "People make money? …I had to see if I heard you correctly" β€” a light beat that also teed up the real question: how do you balance Web3's fast, sticky world against real life.

[22:00] Super on excitement wearing off. Super shared his honest pattern β€” diving hard into new things (the gym, then daily spaces) and losing steam around day 30 β€” and how committing anyway, past the novelty, is a skill Web3 taught him he didn't have at 16 (see: the wisdom-teeth lie that ended his AMC job). Sho gently pushed back at [26:13]: you should still let yourself get excited β€” just keep expectations realistic.

[31:10] Jake on the "eight hours in spaces" flex. Jake argued the 2021–22 mania trained people to treat time-in-spaces as proof of commitment, and that it never added up: "if you have eight hours a day to be on a space… that means that's all you did." He was blunt that thriving here and having a full real life is, in his view, "incredibly hard β€” the math doesn't math."

[35:03] Learning to have your own opinion. Super used the Pixelmon whitelist grind as his cautionary tale β€” his gamer brother warned him the game engine was a red flag, and he ignored it for the hype. His takeaway: conviction and independent judgment are learned, usually the hard way.

[44:31] The OpenSea / merch tangent. Jake wondered aloud why marketplaces still split the NFT from the merch store β€” "you keep telling me this is the future of tech, but I've got a marketplace over here and a Web2 storefront over there." That opened a genuinely useful exchange when he reported his Chimpers jersey redemption required no abstract wallet, which removed a barrier Super had assumed would block selling products on-chain via Dilly.

[57:00] Sam on glorifying no sleep. Sam, running on three-to-four-hour nights while building, named the trap directly: the space glorifies being busy and sleepless as achievement, but "if you're not looking after yourself, the things you're building start suffering too." He described building an actual daily schedule β€” three hours for the site, time for family, gym, a walk.

[1:02:38] Cadarn: don't chase every hype. Cadarn shared getting rocked early β€” buying an NFT at $170, selling at $30 β€” and the peace he found by disconnecting from the "whatever's moving" reflex: "find the credible ones that can be trusted, then buckle up and follow up. You don't need to burn yourself out chasing every hype."

[1:11:45] The eight-hour font. Super confessed to a 4am coding session that ballooned from an expected two hours to seven β€” all to change the font on the site. Sho's "wait, that took you eight hours?" was the punchline of the night; Super, unbothered, defended it as an honest window into how easily coding sucks you in.

Topic timeline

Time Topic
[0:25]–[9:04] Opening / intro music
[9:05]–[11:09] Late-night-space banter, why Sho skipped
[11:09]–[18:37] Topic setup; running vs. walking; sleep and off-balance signals
[18:37]–[28:14] Excitement wearing off; committing to daily spaces; Sho on realistic expectations
[28:14]–[37:38] Jake on emotional reactivity, timeline noise, the "hours in spaces" flex
[37:38]–[43:00] Priorities as the source of balance; TikTok vs. Web3; pillows and revenue
[43:00]–[51:17] OpenSea, Dilly, merch redemptions, abstract wallets
[51:17]–[54:53] Cadarn on finding your niche and outsourcing the rest
[54:53]–[1:00:00] Sam and Sho on burnout, sleep, health as non-negotiable
[1:00:00]–[1:09:00] Jake & Cadarn: achievement over hours; the bodybuilder analogy
[1:09:00]–[1:14:00] Detaching from the screen; the eight-hour font
[1:14:00]–[1:17:49] August plans, a possible Friday update space, close

Notable quotes

"I was asleep at 10:30… and then she was like, the space is live. I'm like β€” oh, I'm staying asleep." β€” Sho [10:33]

0:38

"I can't do two days in a row… I'm too old." β€” Sho [11:02]

0:38

"Wait, people make money? …I had to see if I heard you correctly." β€” Sho [12:47]

0:38

"Never let someone tell you you should be so bullish because they spent time. I don't care. Everyone has time β€” it matters how you spend it and what you achieve with it." β€” Jake [1:04:28]

0:38

"We glorify… lack of sleep as some kind of achievement. But if you're not looking after yourself, the things you're building start suffering too." β€” Sam [57:00]

0:38

"Don't follow everything that's moving… find the credible ones that can be trusted, then buckle up and follow up. You don't need to burn out yourself." β€” Cadarn [1:02:38]

0:38

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